Thanksgiving week, over the past few years, has become synonymous with amazing shopping deals—and this year they’re all online! Maybe the fact that we really can do all of our holiday shopping without putting pants on is the COVID silver lining?
But for some, the ease and instant gratification of online shopping has gotten out of control. What used to be a fun distraction or means for a “treat yourself” occasional splurge is now a full-blown obsession with no hopes of ever paying off the bill.
So this year, let’s remember to keep track of our spending, but also take advantage of the ability to stay out of stores and help stop this relentless COVID spread. Enjoy a hot cup of tea or glass of wine and do your shopping from your couch—you’ll love it and might never shop in a store again. Also, remember that your delivery workers are putting in long hours, so don’t forget to say thank you. Consider leaving a bottle of water, Gatorade, or soda and bag of treats on your porch to show your appreciation for the UPS delivery person who barrels down your street twice a day.
And if you spot a fab online deal, tell your mom and sister and bestie so they can get in on that action too—that’s the rule.
“I’ve lied to everyone. I say I’m a minimalist, but I LOVE online shopping. I’m homebound, so deliveries give me something to look forward to. I make sure I never have an abundance of stuff, though.”
“Got a birth announcement about my youngest cousin’s first child, so I went on Amazon to get her some baby toys. Good LORD – I’d forgotten how deep a rabbit hole baby shopping can be!”
“My son moved and I had the best time shopping for stuff for his new place.”
“I love online shopping over going to the store, but add to it that hot man in his UPS uniform that delivers it and DAMN! I shop everyday. He should be here any minute…..”
Some people (and by “people” I mean me) LOVE online shopping. “Add to cart” is my favorite phrase ever, and my favorite emails include the word “delivered.”
“I can’t stop shopping. It’s so embarrassing”
“I’ve had to completely remove all my cards from my favorite shopping places. My shopping has gone out of control during this pandemic”
“I’m addicted to online shopping on Etsy and smoking weed. I’m trying so fucking hard to stop, but my kids and being a work from home mom and my family history has made me miserable. Idk what to do”
“I’m addicted to online shopping. We can afford my purchases but I really don’t need more stuff. I do it because I’m bored.”
“Six of the eight most visited websites on my cell phone are for online shopping”
However, it’s so easy and such a fun distraction that it can be hard to stop. Especially when those sneaky ads pop up convincing you that you NEED a light-up Grinch for your yard when you already have a blow-up Santa, blow-up reindeer, and giant candy canes lining your sidewalk (and also your bank account is bare).
“I have been shopping online to deal with depression and it makes a horrid cycle. Spending too much makes me amxious, so I shop to feel better. How fucked up is that?”
“I worry that the poor won’t have access to goods or food because of online shopping. It’s not a craze. It is a clear socioeconomic gap. And I work for Amazon!”
“”I make too much money and am too old to still be this broke, in debt, and living paycheck to paycheck. I don’t understand why things are this way.”
I say to myself as I fill my online shopping cart with more shit I don’t need.”
“Now that I have a little bit of extra money, I see how dangerous online shopping is going to be for me.”
The truth is, online shopping can get you into trouble. Because guess what’s coming in a few weeks? That credit card bill, sucker. Also, this is not an effective coping strategy for dealing with your mental health. All it’s going to do is drag you into debt, which isn’t good for anybody.
“Every time my door bell rings my kids say “mom another Christmas present is here”! Love online shopping!”
“I see from the email receipt I received that an order I placed went through just 27 seconds before midnight, and the end of the store’s Black Friday 25% off sale. It’s ridiculous how pumped and triumphant I am about just getting in under the wire.”
“I like online shopping. I like receiving deliveries, even if they’re just vitamins.”
“I’m just chillaxing all day under a blanket, online shopping! Perfect Saturday!”
“I need to get my finances in order and pay off debt. Starting next week I’m gonna track every $ and cut back on expenses. But for now – like when a dieter says they’ll start on Mon – I’m gonna indulge and do one last online shopping splurge.”
But if you’re able to pay the bill once it comes due, online shopping is exactly the salve many of us need in 2020. We can’t stroll through stores. We can’t grab lunch with our besties. And this Christmas, we can’t even see Grandma. This year sucks in lots of ways. But know what doesn’t suck? Your doorbell ringing and a delivery appearing on your porch.
For me, online shopping was already a big part of my life prior to the COVID outbreak. But now it’s a lifeline. All of my gifts for my kids, my husband, my parents, and my girlfriends all over the country have been purchased via the click of a button this year. But now, even my groceries come that way too. I haven’t had to change out of sweats or put a bra on to go shopping in months. Honestly, I don’t think I’ll ever go back. Sorry, malls. I’m an online girl for life now.
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